Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Who are you?



I watched a YouTube video the other day and at the end she talked about really thinking about the question "who are you?". And not where you work or your hobbies or your education or the outcome to buzzfeed quizzes or what your Netflix que says about you. Just who are you? I loved this and I've really been thinking about it recently. In interviews you are often asked "Tell me about yourself?". Usually you'd answer in a way that made you seem like a good candidate. Maybe work experience and your personality traits that make you a good employee and likeable. I bet you haven't been asked (or at least not often) who are you without feeling like there is a right or wrong answer. Come to think of it I don't think I've ever been asked. So I'm asking myself who are you? 

I am an artist but I can be lazy. I'm kind but I come off cold usually on purpose as a defense mechanism. I am an optimistic worrier. I often feel like I have more thoughts than words. I am emotional and I am self conscious, but between my own pride and confidence I won't show you that. I believe in myself and my strength. I am ambitious but question myself particularly, if I have the ability to succeed creatively. I am faithful. I am outgoing but sometimes I just want to be a turtle. Despite my faults I like who I am. 
And that is who I am. 

Now, I'm asking you. Who are you? 
I encourage you to really meditate on that and answer that question today. No right or wrong. 

Are you who you want to be? 
Who are you? 


2 comments:

  1. I'm confident in my ability to build others up, but for some reason I can't do it for myself.
    I'm self conscious, but just like you, I'd never actually show that.
    I'm small, but I know I'm tough.
    I'm a positive thinker and I know it's because our world is so negative.
    I know that it will get me in trouble one day, but I don't want to walk around thinking everyone has to prove themselves to me before I like/trust them.
    I'm maternal, but very lenient at the same time.
    I'm protective over my loved ones, but would let you know walk on me personally - not because I'm weak or a pushover, but because I know how to pick my battles.
    I'm methodical and realistic.
    I know the world isn't rainbows and butterflies, but just because someone has road rage doesn't meant they're mean. They might have an emergency, they might have a family member in trouble.
    I give everyone the benefit of the doubt.
    I'm probably "too nice", but I will remember and I do know when someone is taking advantage of me or doing wrong on purpose.
    I think before I speak, which is rare in this world.
    It takes A LOT for me to get angry, but when I do, watch out.
    I'm a reader and a writer.
    I know who my savior is and He gets me through (and is the reason I am here today) all aspects of my life.
    I'm funny and silly and fun.
    I'm a "normal emotional" - I don't really cry during movies and I didn't cry when I found my wedding dress, or when my son was born, but if I see someone else crying, really crying, it's all over for me too.
    I'm a "feel bad" person because I want happy things for all people, all the time.
    I'm aware of the bad things in the world, but I'm not afraid of them.
    I'll be careful, but I won't live my life in fear.
    I know I don't know as much about politics and war and other countries as I should.
    I am a "go with the flow" sometimes and a "MUST HAVE A PLAN" sometimes.
    I'm friendly, trustworthy, reliable, hard working.
    I'm insecure, scatter brained, wishful. I am complex.

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